An independent woman is someone who knows what she wants, and never relies on anyone to finish the job for her. She is a formidable person who doesn’t allow the men in her life to take over her decisions. She’s tough, but that’s only because she knows it’s the only way she can make a … More A Window into the life of an Independent Woman
The kind where you are passionate to help me be better than my best,
The kind where you are keen to appreciate every good opportunity I represent.
The kind where I am realistic about the passion and vision that you offer,
The kind where I follow you unto the ends of the world so blindly. … More I love my worth and respect more than I can ever love you
Taking a chance in life is one of the most difficult things a person can do. Humans are genetically wired to crave and pursue comfort in every aspect of life. Any deviation from this course and we become paranoid and somewhat out of balance. Life, and the work it demands to meet all of our basic needs, is all about balance. Our pursuit of happiness and self-actualization is no different. The good news is that balance looks different to everyone and no one person is right in what appears to appeal to them. However, a person’s definition of balance is a mix of their innate wants and basic needs and their personal opinions about how those things relate to the world around them, otherwise, there is a displacement which puts a person lopsided. … More The thought of “second marriage”
Cross roads, decisions, choices – sometimes these are not options for us. Life may be full of choices but at the same time, when life choose to happen, that’s exactly what it does – it just happens and without consent from us. Resilience is the key to survival and our reactions say a lot about who we are. … More Where do I go from here?
My love for music though,
The tunes, the lyrics – harmony.
Till I realized music is much more.
See the harmony – lyrics and tunes,
All delicately thought and carefully put together.
So for love’s sake,
I learnt the art
To make passionate music.
I made music that resonated far more the beats
It stayed with me longer than the smiles
It brought out the best in me.
My strength, my weakness – you. … More Learning the Notes
Looking for exoneration,
Till I found the only liberation lives within.
Now, the plan is changed.
Put me back together.
Not for what the world gives,
But for the peace and joy that glows from within,
For the expressions of adventures to come.
I believe in me.
Putting the puzzles back together,
I’m putting myself back together. … More Put me back together
Like living without caution.
As easy as it is to have a bad tire fixed
Is as liberating as it is to have a bad situation changed.
It’s a sweaty and draining evolution
Better a revolution than life imprisonment of one’s mind.
Refusing to live from word to thought
I want to act without overthinking
I want to live without looking back
I want to laugh without holding back
I want to love without regret.
I want to own tomorrow, to live truly … More Anxiety for the morrow
We hold on to so many things that cause a great deal of stress and frustration in our relationships, and instead of letting them all go and allowing our relationships to flourish and blossom, we cling on to them. But if you want to live the kind of relationship you’ve always fantasized, you need to give up on all those things that no longer serve you, and embrace change. … More Making your marriage work
Feelings of restlessness, of anxiousness, of longing and of confusion.
Whatever I do to you – I do to myself.
So ask me to love you in the hub of my hurt and I will
Turn me down and make a fool of me
If it pleases you to do so, … More What I do to you