I love my worth and respect more than I can ever love you

Love,

The kind where you are passionate to help me be better than my best,

The kind where you are keen to appreciate every good opportunity I represent.

The kind where I am realistic about the passion and vision that you offer,

The kind where I follow you unto the ends of the world so blindly. … More I love my worth and respect more than I can ever love you

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Where do I go from here?

Cross roads, decisions, choices – sometimes these are not options for us. Life may be full of choices but at the same time, when life choose to happen, that’s exactly what it does – it just happens and without consent from us. Resilience is the key to survival and our reactions say a lot about who we are. … More Where do I go from here?

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‘A touch of Red’

For as many events you know about Valentine, the dress code is majorly ‘a touch of red’. Have you got your several touches of red picked out yet? No? Not to worry, let’s explore some exciting pieces together and see how we can bring them all together in a fun way and most especially, so that you’re not having to repeat your outfits this season. … More ‘A touch of Red’

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The longer you’ve been single, the better you’ll be in a relationship

We spend so much time putting on facades for others. We pretend to be people we’re not. And when we try too hard to fit in, we lose ourselves often without realizing it. We all change with time, but we don’t always grow with time. Sometimes we take a couple of steps backward. We regress and turn into our younger, more immature selves. It happens but keeping these moments brief is also advised. Once you take some time to be alone and explore who you are, keeping in mind the person you want to be, you’ll get to know yourself again. You’ll come to realize what’s most important to you. You’ll also learn what’s trivial and disposable in your life. … More The longer you’ve been single, the better you’ll be in a relationship

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Looking for a relationship on Dating apps

I once spent too long casually dating someone I didn’t fancy in the relationship kind of way. At first, it was casual, nothing serious intended till he told me he wanted a relationship. For some reason, I couldn’t bring myself to fit into being his girlfriend until naturally, distance separated us. When the next guy I dated … More Looking for a relationship on Dating apps

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Rebuilding your life after abuse

If you have been abused, it is very likely that you will feel the effects of that abuse in all your future relationships.  It could be with your spouse, your friends, your family, and your children. Imagine what it would be like if you could be free from the memories of that abuse – if you could see the world the same as someone who had a normal childhood. Perhaps, there’s still at a chance at a normal life.

Many women who have lived with an abuser find the new “freedom” inhibiting. Such a restrictive view comes from feelings of being lost, out of control, and confused. … More Rebuilding your life after abuse

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5 Must-Have Fashionable Travel Accessories for Ladies

Car, plane or train? Irrespective of how you are traveling and where you are traveling to, there are some fashionable accessories you must carry along with you every time you hit the road. It is always good to look chic and feel comfy when in transit, because you may never know who you will run into. Remember the world is a global village, so it is always good to look your best at all times. There have been cases of people meeting potential business partners, employers or even future husbands in some luxury hotels in Lagos. So, it is good to look the part all the time. Some of the must-have fashionable traveling accessories to spice up any outfit include: … More 5 Must-Have Fashionable Travel Accessories for Ladies

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Staying sexy in the midst of a busy schedule

If you ever want an example of a perfect multitasker, look at the life of a woman. Whether or not we want to, we have to do it all – clean the house, take the kids to school, help with homework, make dinner, satisfy the husband, be outstanding at work and make everyone happy. In the midst of this crazy busy schedule, it can be difficult to feel sexy. Many times we feel stressed, overwhelmed, and not well appreciated which leaves us feeling anything but sexy.

A friend was asking me recently how I find a balance juggling it all. To be quite honest, I don’t know but it is important to realize that feeling and looking good comes from the inside out then it doesn’t become another chore. You must first feel good with yourself on the inside and then it radiates on the outside. So, here are some quick and easy ways to shift your way of thinking and get your sexy back. … More Staying sexy in the midst of a busy schedule

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Break the rules; live a little. No, live a lot. It’s just one life to live

People have often say to me, ‘live a little’.

I know I can be stiff and I can be hard on myself. Don’t get me wrong, I know what fun is. It’s just that I either don’t have the strength or stamina for it or I just come up with excuses why I shouldn’t or can’t make out time for it.

I have a lot ideas and dreams that I juggle on my mind over and over but I also can’t shake off the fact that I need a considerable amount of time to put my ideas into action. Other important things take up my time as well but at the end of the day, those things I’m not doing are the things that hunt me and say to me, ‘you could have done better today’ when I lay my head on my bed.

Different people are aiming for different things especially because it’s a new year. Yet there a many people out there too who we can connect with or collaborate with and form great alliances to achieve great goals this year. But more importantly, while we seek to achieve dreams and attain our goals, let’s not forget what is most important. A life well spent. … More Break the rules; live a little. No, live a lot. It’s just one life to live

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