An independent woman is someone who knows what she wants, and never relies on anyone to finish the job for her. She is a formidable person who doesn’t allow the men in her life to take over her decisions. She’s tough, but that’s only because she knows it’s the only way she can make a … More A Window into the life of an Independent Woman
The kind where you are passionate to help me be better than my best,
The kind where you are keen to appreciate every good opportunity I represent.
The kind where I am realistic about the passion and vision that you offer,
The kind where I follow you unto the ends of the world so blindly. … More I love my worth and respect more than I can ever love you
Taking a chance in life is one of the most difficult things a person can do. Humans are genetically wired to crave and pursue comfort in every aspect of life. Any deviation from this course and we become paranoid and somewhat out of balance. Life, and the work it demands to meet all of our basic needs, is all about balance. Our pursuit of happiness and self-actualization is no different. The good news is that balance looks different to everyone and no one person is right in what appears to appeal to them. However, a person’s definition of balance is a mix of their innate wants and basic needs and their personal opinions about how those things relate to the world around them, otherwise, there is a displacement which puts a person lopsided. … More The thought of “second marriage”
Cross roads, decisions, choices – sometimes these are not options for us. Life may be full of choices but at the same time, when life choose to happen, that’s exactly what it does – it just happens and without consent from us. Resilience is the key to survival and our reactions say a lot about who we are. … More Where do I go from here?
Looking for exoneration,
Till I found the only liberation lives within.
Now, the plan is changed.
Put me back together.
Not for what the world gives,
But for the peace and joy that glows from within,
For the expressions of adventures to come.
I believe in me.
Putting the puzzles back together,
I’m putting myself back together. … More Put me back together
I once spent too long casually dating someone I didn’t fancy in the relationship kind of way. At first, it was casual, nothing serious intended till he told me he wanted a relationship. For some reason, I couldn’t bring myself to fit into being his girlfriend until naturally, distance separated us. When the next guy I dated … More Looking for a relationship on Dating apps
Children are such a delight really until you begin to get comfortable with having one too many. Either with one or five, the anxiety of parenting children are the same. The concern of raising them adequately, eliminating the agitation of how they’ll turn out in future. It’s one thing to train a child in the way he/she should go, it’s another thing for them to actually lead their lives on the objectives parents have instilled in them. … More Scares of Parenting
Relationships between fathers and daughters can truly be one of a kind, especially depending on the presence of a functional father figure in the upbringing of the daughter. Mothers are wired to give and show love to their children but with that comes minimal discipline which tends to put children on the flip side of independence and confidence. For the purpose of this article, I’ll attempt to do justice to the growing search of a father’s role in a father-daughter relationship. … More Fathers & Daughters
Car, plane or train? Irrespective of how you are traveling and where you are traveling to, there are some fashionable accessories you must carry along with you every time you hit the road. It is always good to look chic and feel comfy when in transit, because you may never know who you will run into. Remember the world is a global village, so it is always good to look your best at all times. There have been cases of people meeting potential business partners, employers or even future husbands in some luxury hotels in Lagos. So, it is good to look the part all the time. Some of the must-have fashionable traveling accessories to spice up any outfit include: … More 5 Must-Have Fashionable Travel Accessories for Ladies
Seriously, weight issue is a big deal not only for women but for men as well. One day you’re up weighing high on the scale, the next few months, you’re low and then before you know it, you’re back on the high side again. It seems so tedious to keep up some times.
Yeah yeah! I hear it’s better to make healthy eating a lifestyle rather than be on a marathon diet. I suppose it only works when it’s a lifestyle really. So I find myself dwindling between where I want to be and where I used to be. When I’m weighing low on the scale, sometimes I feel like I’m too skinny. Other times, I feel too fat. … More I’m not fat, I’m plum