My Love’s Beloved

Come, let’s celebrate the sanctity of love

Here she comes, looking like a goddess

My love’s innocent beloved

She appears at my door like full moon

Come, let’s forget our differences and celebrate what binds us together

Your love has caused me pain

Like a dagger through my heart

But maybe that’s my destiny

To love a man who can never belong completely to either one of us

But we can at least hope together

While we celebrate the sanctity of the love we have. … More My Love’s Beloved

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Me, My husband & His mother

Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to leave him. We visited different specialists and they all certified us medically alright. I have visited churches, held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various concoctions of varied colors and combinations all in the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant. … More Me, My husband & His mother

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Is a wife entirely at her husband’s mercy?

Depending on how we were raised and the circumstances surrounding our upbringing, we all turn out differently regardless of what society expects of us. This is why one wife can believe totally to depend on her husband for every need, every expense and hold on to his every word and another believes she is an active participant in the home, having equal say in every matter. While these different practices it might work well for an understanding and deserving husband, in a miss-matched case, it could be recipe for disaster. An example is the scenario where a husband wants his wife to be challenging, not all the time yielding. This causes him to disrespect his wife even more and be less attracted to her by the day. Yet she is instilling the same morals into her daughter which he finds even more irritable. While on the other hand, you’ll find husbands who want this scenario in their homes but their wives have so much voice they can’t be shut out. In the former situation, this is why a woman would strain herself and children in the name of protecting the authority and respect of her husband as opposed to enjoy being a helpful loyal helpmate.   … More Is a wife entirely at her husband’s mercy?

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Things to do if your wife’s love language is quality time

Spending quality time with your spouse says a lot about your relationship. So here’s something out to husbands tonight – a few things to do if your wife’s love language is quality time.

Initiate time with her – If you find yourself in the other room alone, stop what you’re doing and go be with her. Ignoring this early signs of distance in your relationship will only widen the communication gap and before you know it, all form of intimacy becomes unappreciated. … More Things to do if your wife’s love language is quality time

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Did I become less privileged when I got married?

Women start off their lives wanting one thing – to be cherished. Cherish, you’ll say is relative. Could be in a relationship, in the society, in whatever space they find themselves. If women feel less cherished in one space, they remove themselves physically or emotionally from that space into another that is appreciative of them. … More Did I become less privileged when I got married?

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Just by her image

A woman is as perfect as her image and by what she is able to bring to the table regardless of any other circumstances surrounding her. To discriminate a woman by her status in the society tells more of your small mindedness and not the woman’s inability to meet your expectation of her. … More Just by her image

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Issues affecting women empowerment

This should be an interesting topic to deliberate upon and it is, especially in a world where women now strive to be equal achievers with men. However, as women, we must understand that whatever we consider as issues starts from the mind. There are issues all around us if we choose to see life from that perspective but I know definitely that a better outlook to life and dreams is perhaps to see every obstacle as a challenge. I remember always wishing for more challenging tasks in my jobs and I remember a colleague telling me to be careful what I wish for. In all the busy schedules and activities now, I have learnt a vital lesson – taking ownership of my life. … More Issues affecting women empowerment

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