By default, men have difficulty connecting to their emotions and true feelings. They just want to be manly all the time, convinced that being otherwise signifies weakness especially with the opposite sex. Well, some say when a man truly falls in love with a woman, she becomes his weakness. So I suppose men are bound to be weak at some point in their lives. However, for the typical man, it is more difficult to admit what they feel and wish their women would pick their brains and be the automatic perfect woman. Here are some of the things men won’t admit but wish their woman would take the initiative to enact:
Confidence matter, but not too much
Every man wants to be with a beautiful woman. It’s just that if she’s a bundle of insecurities wrapped in some aesthetic appeal, that beauty will wane. It’s an odd occurrence, but personality and confidence make a woman physically sexier. The way men perceive women is generally how they perceive themselves. Lots of confidence – sexy. Lots of complaining and fishing for validation – not so much. Yet there should be a balance not to appear over confidence to the point where women exude the “I don’t really need you” attitude.
Every nice gesture is an attraction signal
Men have tendencies to overestimate a woman’s sexual interest in him. However, if the feeling isn’t mutual, they value a firm but nice shut down. When they extend that gesture and you’re not into them like that, let them know rather than beat about the bush. While men can be obnoxiously overconfident, sometimes it’s literally brain chemistry. It’ll fizzle out if it’s not encouraged.
To fight with you at all means he’s into you
Yes, that is correct. Fights are not always a sign that the relationship is going through a bad time. If he truly loves you and is invested in your relationship, he will take the time to fight, discuss and find solutions for your relationship. Occasional discussions are a sign that he wants to make things work. Otherwise, he might as well cut you off without an explanation at all.
Intelligence is a turn on
Maybe there was a time when “dumb blondes” were appreciated and seen as the perfect show off of a partner but I doubt it’s helpful anymore. Well, except you’ve got the brains behind that beauty. Stimulating conversations make a man go crazy.
Intelligent women think critically and engage all senses. Furthermore, they have this drive to be successful, which in itself, can be the biggest turn on there is.
Ambition is necessary in the 21st century relationship
Men love to be caretakers and “planners”, but they also love a woman who can plan that life with them. It’s all part of man’s expectation of his woman. Otherwise, it’ll only appear sudden when he begins to lose interest. Determined women are more committed, simply due to the fact that they are focus.
Don’t be fooled, humility is still expected
Confident, ambitious, intelligent and all those qualities are good but humility tops them all for a man. When searching for a life partner, this becomes very attractive to a man. Humble women exude this compassion for others, putting others’ happiness before their own. But they do this in such a way that brings them peace and protection.
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