That “Orijin” Kinda Relationship

Meeting exciting and intriguing new people is fun. If they excite you beyond your anticipation, friendship ensues and the rest is a jolly good friendship ride. In the case of the opposite sex, when everything moves too fast, you don’t know when the intrigue becomes fondness turned to matter of your heart; and matters of the heart becomes too overpowering to deny, that’s when you realize you’ve been in a fast track swerve mobile.   … More That “Orijin” Kinda Relationship

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How To Be Less Lonely Over The Holidays

Happy Holidays Everyone!

Are you having fun yet? Well, that’s if you’re not the one spending all the time in the kitchen. I hope you don’t fall into the category of people who have no one to spend the holidays with or gotten the holiday blues already. If it’s your first holiday feeling lonely, let’s help explore ways to ensure this never happens again and who knows? Maybe you can still help the situation and make the most of it. So let’s find creative ways to be less lonely during the holiday. … More How To Be Less Lonely Over The Holidays

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Respect: A key to successful relationship

Sustaining respect during the course of a relationship takes effort. We are all human, and if someone begins to treat us negatively, inconsiderately, and disrespectfully, we often tend to respond in kind. The pattern of mutual disrespect actually feeds on itself. The more one partner is rude and inconsiderate, the more likely it is the other spouse or partner will behave in similar ways. … More Respect: A key to successful relationship

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Lagos hotels with festive offers this Christmas

What’s more divine than spending a well-deserved get-away time at a 4 star or 5 star hotel? Incredible offers – festive offer!

Have you worked all year round with little or no time to relax and enjoy your hard earned money? Well, maybe it’s time to help you put that money to good use. It’s not to throw or party or buy lavish gifts but it’s important to treat yourself. My father always say “omo to ba sise dede, a’lasiko igbadun”, meaning “the one who’s worked consistently must have quality time to unwind” or something like that. LOL. … More Lagos hotels with festive offers this Christmas

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What men wish woman know

Every man wants to be with a beautiful woman. It’s just that if she’s a bundle of insecurities wrapped in some aesthetic appeal, that beauty will wane. It’s an odd occurrence, but personality and confidence make a woman physically sexier. The way men perceive women is generally how they perceive themselves. Lots of confidence – sexy. Lots of complaining and fishing for validation – not so much. Yet there should be a balance not to appear over confidence to the point where women exude the “I don’t really need you” attitude. … More What men wish woman know

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The clouds come down

Wake up one morning

And the clouds have come down

O the joy!

To be in the clouds up above,

A feeling so serene

Yet the clouds come down

It gives a realization so surreal.  

The fields are damp with dew
And the dawns billow with cold,

The air is pale like a ghost

The streets cry of dust

Green grasses change to rust, 

The leaves wither and drop

The wind grips and wrinkles the skin
And the lips shiver and break
The windows all sealed, 
Under these winds we shall still hold fort

Till the clouds are lifted off again.  … More The clouds come down

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Oh my Heart!

You are my journey

You are my destination as well

Living without you is tough, O heart!

You are present in my prayers

Your absence tries me

You are necessary to complete me   

Even if I have received only pain from you,

As I have received it from you, I will always seek you … More Oh my Heart!

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Celebrate Everyday!

Even when it seems like everything is going wrong in your life, there is always something that’s going right. You owe it to yourself to find out what that is and bring it into your awareness. No one will love you if you do not love yourself. No one will make you happy if you do not radiate happiness. No one can give you confidence if you don’t feel self-worthy. It’s not a matter of someday. You can make that choice to drop that low spirit and strive to have a brighter and happier life, because the more you focus on the good stuff, the more good stuff you find. … More Celebrate Everyday!

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Raising kids in a perverse generation

A famous Nigeria actress said, “The best gift you can give your child is the Word of God”. God did indeed give you these children for this time. You need to help them discover the secret in the Word of God that will take them to wonderful places, even beyond this world. Daily instruction in God’s Word is key in raising children in this age. The Word is very clear on men and women, marriage, sexual perversion, and right and wrong. There are so many teachings and personal opinions on the internet which can, quite frankly, get your mind twisted if you’re not even grounded in a Truth. If for the only reason that the Bible is a book of morals and ideals, then there is no harm in obeying to the letter, without additions or subtractions. It’s very clear on the hardening of hearts to the truth, and on fools being led astray. Read it with and to your children daily. Memorize passages. Explain how they relate to our practical times. … More Raising kids in a perverse generation

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