Ok so ever since I wrote secrets men keep, I’ve had guys call me, eager to know the secrets women keep. I would be a sell out to share those secrets but to be fair, I’m going to sieve out some basic ones so that we’re not causing trouble by the end of this article. … More Secrets women keep
Now success is a very relative term. A writer who dreams of being successful may be of the opinion that until his/her book makes waves in the market and is able to sell out within a few weeks of publication, he/she hasn’t succeeded. Or perhaps another writer whose idea of success is to make life-changing impacts with the little readers his/her book can reach. Success is only measurable against the standard which we have set for ourselves. If what I want is to be a stay at home mom, then success will only find me on that level. But if what I want is to be the among Forbes’ top 100 most influential women in the world, then I have by myself raised the bar for which I will have to run with till the day I attend my dream. So it is safe to say while success may have started off as a journey, it comes to an end at a destination, except of course our success story is operations of some sort. … More What gives fulfillment?
Someone would say it’s easier said for married folks to say but the truth is, in whatever capacity we find ourselves, there is always a reason to embrace who we are, otherwise, how do we expect someone else to appreciate and love us if we cannot accept ourselves enough to be desired? … More Embrace your singleness!
Relationships can be a roller coaster anyway, regardless of the love but if we’re all being true to ourselves and each other, every roller coaster situation isn’t supposed to pull us apart. It’s supposed to bring us stronger together. So once in a while, depending on the time and mood, don’t be afraid to address those situations. It’s toward building a healthy and lasting relationship anyways. … More Why men pull away
Looking back from where I’ve been
I know where I want to be
It would appear progress isn’t as I hoped it
But when I look at five minutes ago,
I know there was something there I wouldn’t do again
Something there I wouldn’t try again
Something there I wanna take away
Something there I’m going to remember forever
For what good is remembering only the good things
If we cannot reminisce the bad to equip us unto where we want to be?
So I move five steps forward and one step back.
That’s ok, right?
Is this what it is called to self-examine?
Because I keep coming back to the spot where I left you. … More Freestyle Tuesday – Poetry
You know, typically, I can’t think of one good reason why men fall in love. Not that women are not complementing in so many ways but men just like to be men (egocentric) most times that they forget that it’s OK to just be human too. Be vulnerable or not, it doesn’t mean you haven’t got the same red blood running through your veins like a woman’s. So many things make a man but you might as well be just a man – the man with the 6 pack abs, the man riding in the back sit of his Bentley, the man retiring before the age of 40, the man traveling the world with no care in the world. The difference in men, for a woman, is the communication substance. What makes a man speak with respect, care, truly listening to a woman determines, eventually, the quality of fulfillment he’ll have with his 6 pack abs or when his cruising in his Bentley or what he does with the rest of his time after retiring at 40 or what the world will mean to him then when he’s traveling the length and breadth of it without care. … More Why men fall in love
To the song here in my heart
A melody I started
But I will complete
Now I’m done believing you
You don’t know what I’m feeling
I’m more than what you’ve made of me
I followed the voice you think you gave to me
But now I’ve got to find my own
My own. … More The song in my heart