I would expect certain things are just that obvious like when a lady is interested in a guy and when she’s not. But it’s really repulsive when guys just choose to ignore the signs and rather choose to be hopeful about the situation. Some guys say persistence is the word. Well, I don’t know about that but a girl won’t like or want what she won’t have no matter what. If a guy is attentive enough, you’d know when she’s just playing hard to get from when she just finds you repulsive.
Body languages are a good way to tell if she’s into it, however, there are few clearer signs of definite attraction than the position of the body. Lots of guys worry about whether or not she’s touching her hair or her clothes or these other super subtle cues. The more she’s facing you, the more likely she is to be interested regardless. And the more she’s looking away, the more she has her mind elsewhere.
Let’s examine a few definite signs she’s into you.
Eye contact is a universal symbol of human attraction. People tend to stare intently at those they are attracted to. If she’s really interested in you, her pupils will dilate during this time period, which is kind of cool if you can catch it happening.
A powerful way women convey attraction is by sharing stories about themselves, usually stories they don’t share with just anyone. And it’s not just women who do this, men are also prone to sharing secrets with women, especially women they’ve just met, if they’re attracted.
Both men and women change the tone and the pitch of their voices when speaking to someone they’re attracted to. The tone of a woman’s voice is a rare sign of attraction that has few other explanations. She might raise or lower the volume of her voice based on the situation you two are in. She’s going to do it automatically, without thinking much about it, because she’s attracted to you. When she talks to you differently or questions you on very intimate subjects, in certain situations, these could be signs of interest.
A girl who’s interested in you will not only answer the questions you throw at her but she’ll be interested to ask you a few questions of her own. Otherwise, if you find yourself at the inquiring end with nonchalant answers or looking to get away from you at any given chance, then don’t even sweat it. There’s no need to pursue her any further. The amount of questions a woman asks you can be a great indicator of her interest. If you can maintain her gaze, provoke her touch and elicit more questions during conversation, you’re on the right path.
If it seems like she’s suddenly free for lunch every time you are, it’s likely not a coincidence. Engaging with you on social media is also a sign that she might be interested. If a woman likes nearly all of your status updates, replies to your tweets or comments on all your Instagram photos, she’s paying you special attention and is likely trying to draw yours.
Singles You Out
A woman who’s interested in you will make herself available, even if just by text or email. Before she leaves for a business trip or make important decisions, she’ll touch base with you to let you know how and when she can be reached. Singling you out in general is a sign of attraction.
When a girl gives you dominance and control over the situation, she could be interested. This could be as simple as letting you decide what to do on the date, what to drink, what to eat etc. It may not necessarily mean she’s indecisive about such things or doesn’t know what she wants, she might just enjoy the feel to be controlled by letting you make such decisions for her.
Time seem to freeze when you’ve got a girl who’s interested in you like that. Otherwise, you can tell if she won’t stop looking at her watch or itching behind her eyes, like she’d rather be doing something else or be someplace else than be with you at that time. And it’s safe to assume that she will never have a better time for you, not even when she has nothing else to do.
Like I mentioned earlier, you’d know if she’s just playing hard to get from when she just finds you repulsive and that’s not in a bad way. A lady can be nice enough to tolerate you, it doesn’t always mean she’s interested like you’d want her to be. You just need to pay attention to the signs she’s serving you.