Ok so ever since I wrote secrets men keep, I’ve had guys call me, eager to know the secrets women keep. I would be a sell out to share those secrets but to be fair, I’m going to sieve out some basic ones so that we’re not causing trouble by the end of this article.
While a woman may tell her man a little white lie to save him from getting his feelings hurt, there are other things that she will keep from him for other reasons. Perhaps she doesn’t want to discuss a given topic or she doesn’t want to argue about it. For whatever reason, there are some pretty universal things that most if not all women keep from their significant others. Let’s take a look, shall we?
Most women won’t actually tell you how much money they spent shopping. They may also show you some of the items that they purchased, emphasizing that most were gotten “on sale.” Some items may be hidden in their cars, until you aren’t around to see what’s being brought into the house. Some women may even have their own “secret” bank accounts.
- Money Talk Turns Women Off
While it’s great to have a guy who has his finances in order, we don’t want to hear about how much green stuff you’ve got. We’d much rather know that you work hard and that you’re ambitious than hear that you take lavish vacations twice a year or how you gifted someone huge amounts of money once. This is a great area where “show don’t tell” works nicely.
- Women Like To Feel Independent
Women like to be taken care of but many also like to feel like they can take care of themselves too. On another note, we may complain about you having a night out with the guys, but secretly, we can’t wait to have that solitary space by ourselves too. Just don’t have too much fun without us.
- Women Like It When You’re Jealous
A woman may play it off like your jealous tendencies are annoying or ridiculous, but the truth of the matter is that we like when our guys are a little territorial. Of course, we don’t want you to overdo it, but we like to feel wanted.
- Women Starts Fights Because She’s Feeling Ignored
Women try to force emotions out of their men sometimes just to get that reassurance that he’s still got something for her. Advice for the men, don’t retreat into your cave. Just give her what she wants – a little attention.
- Women Can Get Turned On Just By Looking At Your Hand
I’m going to throw this last one in just for the fun of it. You can do the math yourself!