Why women cheat

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Is she truly being distant, or have past experiences caused you to jump to the conclusion that people will inevitably hurt you? There are some pretty impressive surveillance techniques and body-language giveaways, but that’s another article altogether.

On my drive home through busy traffic, I watched this random woman on the road roll her big ‘bakasi’ as she walked on, probably heading home after a hard day’s work and for some weird reason I thought to myself – this woman’s husband must be lucky to have all that bakasi all to himself. Then I was quick to think, men aren’t altogether predictable as well. Her husband might probably just have had enough of all her deliciousness and is seeking some new ‘feel’ elsewhere. While it might be easier and more convenient for some men to cheat, women have also been known to exploit this area too for reason best known to them.

Men and women tend to cheat for different reasons. It is assumed that the majority of men stray in search of get-the-job-done sex, whereas women want their sizzle with a side of emotional connection. Women tend to cheat when they are dissatisfied with their relationship as a whole and seek what is missing elsewhere. I have heard of men who emphasize that they are happily married yet they clamor for a side chic. So a picture message read, “Who does a man love more? The woman he lies to or the one he tells the truth?”

Some people are of the opinion that it is easier to spot when a woman is cheating simply by analyzing her behavior.  Here are some of the things to watch out for.

Here’s a joker though, for men, it will be at the detriment of your relationship to therefore conclude that once you can pin one or two of these points to your partner, then she must be cheating. A number of things are responsible for changing a woman’s pattern owing mostly to age, hormones. You need to be founded in your claims before concluding and falsely accusing your woman.

However, most women in this category will claim – “IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT” and you need to figure out what part or role you played in it all. Most people who cheat believe that they are justified in doing so. If one party is stingy with emotional support, especially the men, a woman may feel abandoned and isolated. Point to note, intimacy, for a woman is not just about sex. It’s more like non-physical connections, commitment and mutual emotional investment. Other women feel the need to avenge an unresolved betrayal. If a woman feels cheated in your responsibilities towards her, she may seek a more “understanding” option where she feels she will be fine with or without you.

No relationship is perfect. If you still want to be together, try to work it out when things get unpredictably difficult. You might just be able to save your relationship if you are sensitive and determined enough.

 

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One thought on “Why women cheat

  1. Honestly, two wrongs can never make a right, the question that comes to mind is “what’s the global society turning into as it regards moral standards”
    The society at large is in inevitable dying dilemma as a result of overpopulated unrepentant clowns both in women and men chasing a ghost avenger in the spirit of pay back. What are you paying back, what will you benefit paying evil with evil. I’m not a pastor and can’t be one, however, if a relationship is not working why not simply back out honorably. As for a man, it’s only a mad man that will not appreciate optimally the gift of a woman from God, I’m yet to see a bad woman but terrible men abounds. It’s the greediness and self centeredness in men that always navigate the path of weak willed woman to cheating burn out of emotional wreck. Men are naturally animalistic by nature, no wonder King Solomon had a thousand women at his beck and call, na wa o, no bi today e start. Nevertheless, I’m not in support of power tussle for authority nor encourage divorce or devalued moral standards rather the need for a woman and man to come together and base their relationship on love, trust, care, friendship and mutual respect for one another. Once this is achieved then our abode will become a home.

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