Marriage is for better and worse. At least, that’s what we all say when we read our vows. It doesn’t automatically mean that there will be good days or bad days. It just means whatever comes your way, you will stay and weather the storm. Well, there’s a lot of storm raging against marriages now … More Doing it for the children?
Halt! We all strive for perfection, as individuals and as better halves but we all have our down times. No situation is permanent and none is perfect. In the meantime, don’t put up appearances that isn’t sustainable. Better yet, don’t put up appearances that aren’t real. Yoruba people have a saying that translates, “when your yam is done, you protect it and eat it quietly”. In this context, I’d say, when you have it all good and rosy, keep it under wraps. If it’s good for you, all well and good but don’t come to social media and mislead your fans. People look up to you. When they later realize your life isn’t the pretty picture you’ve been painting, how do you think that makes them feel? For those aspiring to be like you, you’ve shattered their hope/dream. For those that never liked you anyway, you just made their day. … More When love is for show, you’re bound to lose the essence of it all