If my passion is to help people be better versions of themselves, bringing to their awareness errors that can be avoided by counselling and awareness, then by all means, I am dedicated to finding what people want and researching solutions to helping them by every means possible.
When I wrote, Jewel of inestimable value, it spontaneously borne from the situations I observed around me at the time. But I see now that the numbers of people who search, probably for a meaning on the internet on a daily basis is increasing and it’s been referred to every now and again.
The first time I read of jewel of inestimable value, it was more of a private message borne of truth and sincerity of warm expressions and that’s what it should be about really – spontaneous unrehearsed expressions of love.
While my previous article on this was centered on how men want to keep a wife as an honorary trophy, this article is borne from laying to rest a growing search for expressions of love.
Holding someone in inestimable value means they are precious to you. A partner isn’t just for presentations or benefits. A partner, whether husband or wife, are because they give meaning to your life and without them, you feel like you’re not achieving enough. Some people can argue that love doesn’t necessarily affect their lifestyle but then I hope they don’t lose the love in their lives before they appreciate what the presence of it was doing in their life.
Expressions of love though sometimes might seem a difficult and nerve-racking exercise, but really, it’s the little things that matter. The simple gestures of care and attention and want and desire and longing and sharing and laughing that lets the other person know just how much they mean to you. Searching for one good word once a year when it’s your partner’s birthday or killing yourself to find the right atmosphere on Valentine’s Day doesn’t make love natural, neither is it appreciated if it’ll all be done the next day. To find the appropriate words or expressions of love isn’t that much of a task. If you got it, you got it. If you don’t, that’s when it becomes a chore.
So in your search for value meaning or expressions of your love, bottom line is being spontaneous, be a fool for love. At least, that was what I was told and it’d not made me any lesser than I am worth. You’ll find you will discover depths of gratitude and fulfillment that nothing else will ever be able to be to you.