Does a woman really want her man to be charismatic?

Of course, it’s one of the things that attract women to men – charisma; that compelling charm which inspires and compels attraction and devotion in others. It’s a good trait both in men and women, charisma. It’s just like an alluring scent of heavenly freshness, you really can’t not be attracted to it. It’s fun, it’s exciting, it brings lots of laughter and free-spirit wherever it is.

Yes, you’ve gotten your man. One way was because he had that charisma. But do women really appreciate their man exhibiting that charisma with other ladies? … More Does a woman really want her man to be charismatic?

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Mommy, why is Christmas day on the 25th December?

Christmas is celebrated to remember the birth of Jesus Christ, who we believe is the Son of God.

The name ‘Christmas’ comes from the Mass of Christ. A Mass service (which is sometimes called Communion) is where Christians remember that Jesus died for us and then came back to life. The ‘Christ-Mass’ service was the only one that was allowed to take place after sunset (and before sunrise the next day), so people had it at Midnight! So we get the name Christ-Mass, shortened to Christmas. … More Mommy, why is Christmas day on the 25th December?

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Making an extraordinary out of the ordinary

Hi people!

A very merry Christmas to you all. What a year it’s been! Heck, I even thought this Christmas might be the worst ever but guess what, everything has its way of first forming a perception in our minds before it materializes. In most cases, they do but when God wants to prove Himself and show you there are higher beings controlling the forces of the Universe, then your thoughts and perceptions won’t change anything.

This is exactly what happened to me this Christmas. I had a lovely outfit I wore 2 Christmases ago, I wore it last Christmas. Since no one would noticed or so I thought, I was going to wear it again today until enough is enough. I got a called from a friend who hooked me up with brand new outfit for Christmas. I hadn’t expected.

For some reason, even while I was busy thinking Christmas would be a drag, my actions were proving otherwise because I was excited for it. I was excited for the plans and gifts I had to give out. It would make me happy seeing others smile and happy because someone remembered to give this season. … More Making an extraordinary out of the ordinary

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In loving memory of my grandma

A woman of extreme strength, courage and love,
Who was beautiful, soft and now peaceful and free as a dove.
Someone on who our admiration was built around,
For her womanhood, wife, friend and grandmother.

My darling Grandma, I will forever hold you in my heart,
You were more than a mother to my mother,

You were her guardian angel, watching over her and fighting evil away from her.
I will always be grateful that you met my son, your great grandson.

How blessed you are!

I pray to blessed by the virtue of this rear opportunity in raising your great grandchildren.

My darling Grandma, I will always respect all you went through in your hardships and distinguished ways,
Your ability to hold yourself with such dignity and pride in all your days,
Your beauty shines in us all who were lucky to be part of your family,
I will carry you always in my mind and heart.

My darling Grandma, I pray that you continue to rest in peace for which you truly deserve,
For you are always remembered for your love and honor.
We love you always and forever and may God be with you. … More In loving memory of my grandma

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12 days of Christmas: 12 Drummers Drumming

On the last day of Christmas my true love sent to me

Drummers in front of my apartment

Drumming gloriously attracting my attention and everyone else’s on my block

I watched the crowd, enjoying a lovely wonderful performance

Then I heard the doorbell.


It was my true love,

Dressed as Santa to give me the sweetest gift ever.

“Merry Christmas”, he said with a Christmas kiss. … More 12 days of Christmas: 12 Drummers Drumming

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12 days of Christmas: 11 Pipers Piping

He knows music is my one weakness and he has it new and ready for me each time.

This time, I hear my piper piping:

“Unforgettable, that’s what you are
Unforgettable, though near or far
Like a song of love that clings to me
How the thought of you does things to me
Never before has someone been more
Unforgettable in every way
And forevermore
That’s how you’ll stay
That’s why darling, it’s incredible
That someone so unforgettable
Thinks that I am unforgettable too”

Then I smiled.

I couldn’t have loved him more in that moment than I ever have. … More 12 days of Christmas: 11 Pipers Piping

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12 days of Christmas: 10 Lords a Leaping

All for love,

Even though you don’t dance, you were bent on erasing the bad memories and giving me better ones to live my days.

All for love,

Even though you wouldn’t have bothered, we had to have that dance for the sake of the sweet silent night.

All for love.

And even though you always try to keep your feeling under wraps

I see it clearly

I see it all the time

I see how the heart of my true love leaps in excitement for me.

Always. … More 12 days of Christmas: 10 Lords a Leaping

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Relationship Appraisal

Yeepee! It’s the end of another year. Are you excited? Or maybe not. Did you have resolutions and targets at the beginning of the year? Did you tick them off as you achieved them? Or perhaps you got caught up in a lot of things and you were unable to realize your set goals.

Just as we set goals in our personal lives, we set goals at work or in our businesses as well with our relationships. It only gives us a sense of achievement when we actualize our targets and not just having them on paper. For the benefit of this article, we will be evaluating our relationship goals and appraising ourselves thus.

Why relationship evaluation though? … More Relationship Appraisal

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