Messy businesses are all over the place.
They said he said that I said …
I did this but didn’t imply what he said …
She spoke to a friend who is best friends with her friend …
We both agreed on this but when we separate, I decided to damn the consequences of …
In these circumstances, when one of two or more parties have these messy businesses, what to do? Do you advise the defending party to react or to ignore the defiant attacks of the other party? If the other party doesn’t react, is that considered as weakness or wisdom (to ignore)? If the other party reacts, doesn’t that give more grounds for the fight to fester?
What do you think?
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I walk away from such altercations. Waste of vital energy and at times it can become immature.
I don’t always walk away but it would be so much healthier to do so…
It really keeps me saner.
Conflicts are a norm. I feel we should patiently listen and check whether we are wrong or right! Some people can be annoying.
Sometimes we found this difficult situation, but to be the best for our surrounding is better…