Day 3 – Three Day Quote Challenge

Hi people!

Hope the quotes I’ve shared these past few days have been inspiring or helpful in some ways. If not, I hope you find the quotes for today insightful.

Thanks again Eddaz for putting me up for the challenge.

RULES FOR THE QUOTE CHALLENGE

Thank the blogger who nominated you.

Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive days.

Nominate 3 bloggers each day.

All my quotes for today are by one of my favorites of all time – Maya Angelou.

Don’t be afraid to think outside the box, step outside the box just to be as outstanding as you wish to be.

For today, I will like to nominate:

Lifetitudes
Giggles & Tales
The King’s Oracle
These have become a few of my favorite pages to finish per time. Guys, you are not obligated to participate, but I hope you will accept the challenge. Looking forward to reading great quotes from you.

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Day 2 – Three Day Quote Challenge

I almost didn’t get to doing this today. Hectic day, feeling a bit under the weather too but a challenge is a challenge. Got to do what I got to do so here goes.

If it wasn’t for Eddaz who put me up to this, I probably wouldn’t have any post to put up today considering the above stated limitation. So thanks again girl, for the challenge. I find it quite interesting.

RULES FOR THE QUOTE CHALLENGE

Thank the blogger who nominated you.

Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive days.

Nominate 3 bloggers each day.

My quotes for today are as follows:

1st Quote is by Mother Theresa:

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2nd Quote is by Oscar Wilde:

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Emphasis on value, people and words are today’s focus without which even the world would not have been formed. Learning to place respect of these watchwords is a great foundation for many beautiful things to happen for you.

For today, I will like to nominate:
1.Danny
2.Jason
3.Thomas

These have become a few of my favorite pages to finish per time. Guys, you are not obligated to participate, but I hope you will accept the challenge. Looking forward to reading great quotes from you.

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Day 1 – Three Day Quote Challenge

Its times like this that I get rewarded for doing what I love to do the best, write. Thanks Eddaz for nominating me for the three days quote challenge.

RULES FOR THE QUOTE CHALLENGE

Thank the blogger who nominated you.

Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive days.

Nominate 3 bloggers each day.

My quotes for today are as follows:

1st Quote is by Steve Jobs:

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2nd Quote is by Paulo Coelho:

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3rd Quote is by Martin Luther King Jr.:

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It might as well be inspirational Monday. Any of these quotes that speaks to you all charge us to stay focus whatever life throws at us.

For today, I will like to nominate:

Jackie
OluseyeAshiru
Lili
These have become a few of my favorite pages to finish per time. Guys, you are not obligated to participate, but I hope you will accept the challenge. Looking forward to reading great quotes from you.

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Importance of sex in a relationship

Hi people!
How are y’all doing? Enjoying your weekend? I am, having spent a well-deserved quality time with my family today and the weekend just got started.
Sometime during the week, I had been moody and overwhelmed. I looked forward to some alone time with my husband, at least for the obvious importance (to refresh ) but before I could fantasies, I tried to slap the thought out of me and focus on work instead. Well, that was before I read this post supposedly by Leslie posted by Eddaz.
I recall someone asking my opinion on a controversial write up she wants to put up titled ‘let’s negotiate sex’. Well, I told her the content is what will really determine whether it’s controversial or not but of course, first reactions and impressions would be drawn based on the word sex in the title.
So what is it that draws people or intrigues us about sex? Well, for one thing, it does have its many advantages. It aids a good night sleep, refreshes, rejuvenates, and brings couples closer, building intimacy and reassurance and confidence. Confidence in self-esteem and confidence in your relationship. They say kisses and cuddles a day lengthens a life-span, however true that is. I advised a friend who’s had flu for about a month to get things steamy with her husband after she lamented that all the drugs were not relieving her. I suppose she took my advice because when I saw her in the morning, she was not only glowing, the flu was gone and she just looked altogether new. That’s what sex does. Of course, it opens easier line of communication with your partner and whatever you were not able to freely discuss before, becomes easier afterwards.
We women like to be modest about our desires, that’s fine I suppose. But holding back too much is like wearing a bra while having sex. We know that won’t get you and your partner the well appreciated and hotter perspective. So embrace how you feel, how sex makes you feel and enjoy a healthier longer life and relationship.
Have a sexy weekend y’all. … More Importance of sex in a relationship

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Bearing it all

I can’t help but refer to this over and over. One of the things that got me hooked on my husband was his simplistic approach to life, to relationships. Life is what it is, can be complicated but it’s as simple as you want it to be. I fell in love with his notion because it’s who I am. I like to be straightforward, simple and let it all hang loose. You can pick the elements you want and let go of those you don’t need when I’m done letting it out. Either way, do one but don’t hold on to one and condemn me by the other. Let me explain.

Men and women, we both want to be totally at peace with ourselves, with our partners or whoever we choose to be with. Genuine relationships are based on how much of a truth you know about the person you’re with and how much of the real you the other person knows. But I’ve found, a lot of women confirm this too, that there is a limit to the information you can give a guy and he won’t find one of them to use against you. Opinions are often formed without insight. A lot of my male friends, even right from Uni, tell me I’m not a typical female. I like to be real, to be myself and, well I don’t expect everyone to like me for who I am but for those who have chosen to, I expect understanding, tolerance and support for what I am and appreciate my flaws too.

I was at a female social gathering some time ago and a lady recounted how in her first relationship, she was open about herself with her partner, shared her excitements, her fears, her ups and downs, even her potential wild side but eventually whenever sometime went wrong, certain things she confided in her partner which didn’t quite go down well with him would then resurface, using them against her honor. I’ve heard guys say they want “a lady on the street but a freak in bed”, something along those lines but how often do you encourage the same woman to be both without judging her at some point? The lady confessed that she took the learning from that relationship into her next and it so happened that because she wasn’t free to express herself, she couldn’t quite understand herself in that relationship. So at what point is confiding and letting it all hang loose in your relationship sharing too much information? Or at what point should you be weary that certain things you’ve said are being used against you?

I love love. It been my favorite thing since I understood its meaning. Sometimes I’m not proud of it because I find I let myself be ruled by my emotions whereas it ought to be the other way round. But I’m learning to be in control of my emotions instead. But when I love, I let it all hang loose, keeping nothing away. I don’t expect to be condemned or judged by it. I can’t speak for a lot of people but I appreciate the truth and I am mature enough to deal with it. I would rather know and be courageous enough to live committedly by my decision.… More Bearing it all

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Interesting Dating Options

Interesting indeed!

I was reading a novel recently. Set in the medieval ages, typical English traditions and all and it implies that when ladies become of age, some sort of ‘outing’ is arranged where eligible suitors come to sort of tender their applications and be interviewed for the maiden’s selection. They court a few times when she shortlists which of them she finds worthy until she chooses ‘the one’. Interesting, I repeat.

On my drive home from work yesterday while listening to the radio, the On-Air Personalities were debating the timeline for which one can engage in another relationship after a break up. Then one person mentioned that a friend of hers got married only after 2 months of breaking up with another guy. Then the conclusion was that she must have been dating 2 guys at the same time to have moved on so swiftly which they implied was wrong. Interesting debate.

But would it be a sin really for a lady to enjoy an ‘outing’ where she can choose? I mean, how do you know what you are getting into if you don’t have some sort of leveraging of standards and choices? Don’t get me wrong. I’m not soliciting that ladies begin to date as much men as they can before marriage leaving other men to inherit left-overs (excuse my French) but of course with decent courtship, zero intimacy and supervised meetings if you will. Meanwhile, the disadvantages of practicing the medieval ‘outing’ in this day and age outweighs the benefit of the intent. The times are different, the level of exposure is crazy and selfishness cuts across both gender. But for the benefit of women, for instance, especially the older ones who have the biological factor and other pressures working against them, wouldn’t it have been some sort of relief for them to be able to enjoy the optional benefit without having to start over? I don’t know. I’m just thinking out loud.

What do you guys think?… More Interesting Dating Options

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Exploring the internet

It all comes down to creative problem solving. Funny I should be thinking in this line but hey, I suppose I can’t take away the HR skill out of me.

Looking through my Stats on WordPress from time to time, analyzing too, what people search for the most on internet, I’m glad I’m able to help guide someone’s information out there sometimes. Looking through Google this morning with an intention to satisfy some sort of inquisition on the internet, I find this: Olajumoke Orisaguna: Model is Google’s most searched person in Nigeria in 2016.

So the story of Olajumoke is one which everyone did talk about and obviously are still talking about. Even I talked about it here some time ago. So what makes people still want to know about her or catch up with what she’s doing these days? The answer is simple. Everyone loves a grass-to-grace story. Prosperity!

We all want to relate to prosperity, we want it. Heck, we even made it a prayer point at my “gathering of the brethren” this past weekend. All round well-being, happiness, satisfaction, success and wealth, we want these things. However, an important factor is to be considered – what do you have in your hands? I’d like to describe prosperity as the multiplication in good fortune of what is.

When Jesus fed 5,000 men, excluding women and children, He did it with 2 fishes and 5 loaves of bread. When Simon caught fishes so much, they broke his fishnet, he had been at sea, not at the shore lamenting about the tides. When God multiplied the barrel of oil of the Widow of Zeraphath, she was willing to bring forth her very last. Something always has to give for a multiplication of good fortune to happen. Miracles happen when we have something to lift up to the heavens in anticipation for a better realization. Magic is merely a mumbo-jumbo of a concoction which often usually vanishes.

We love a good story, we want that grass-to-grace story to be ours, we want prosperity but what are we doing presently to cause that blessing to happen to/for us? A lot of songs preach that your hero lies in you. It sure does. Only you can help actualize your dreams, you just need some creativity about it.

Get to it already!😉 … More Exploring the internet

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